Carlal’s Weblog

A suburban mom, her family, her life, and her world views.

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Hello world!

Welcome to This is to be my first post. Here I go I am now blogging!

Hello  world! You will know me as Carlal.  I am a mother of eight beautiful children and a wife of one man whom I deeply love.

I have started this blog site because even though there is much love for my husband, there is deep resentment also, and I have a need to express myself.

Our relationship has been a tumultuous one, and not one that many would find appealing nor could understand how it has lasted as long as it has.

I am going to throughout the time I spend formulating this site , take you with me into our past present and hopefully future.

But first, I want to make a statement.

Although at times it may seem as if I am blaming my husband for all of the battles we have encountered in our relationship, that is not how I feel. I am deeply aware that it always takes two to tango, and that no one person is ever without blame.

Men, I implore you to comment on what I write and to help us women to understand you better. Women, do not believe that your “feelings” override your man’s feelings. And both men and women, TRULY CONSIDER your mates feelings and positions on issues.

Be respectful of one another.